Feeld alternatives: 6 apps for poly, ENM and couples

Updated October 2026. Facts checked on 26 October 2026.

The short answer

If you want an app made only for ethical non-monogamy, with partners visible and seeing who liked you for free, try Blend (ours; new and small). If you want a bigger pool of people, OkCupid has a non-monogamy setting. Couples meeting people together often use 3Fun. If you would rather meet at events first, try Plura. Most people keep Feeld and add one of these.

Why people look for a Feeld alternative

• Cost: seeing who liked you is part of Feeld’s paid Majestic tier, which is $29.99 for 30 days on the US App Store.
• Focus: Feeld covers kink and casual dating as well as ENM. Some people want an app built only around polyamory and open relationships.
• Meeting in person: some people would rather meet at events than swipe.
• Where you live: outside big cities, any single app can feel quiet, so it helps to use more than one.

Feeld alternatives at a glance

The alternatives, one by one

Blend (ours)

Blend is built only for ethical non-monogamy. Partners link with consent, couples and groups run profiles together, and profiles show relationship structure and boundaries. One-to-one and group chats are end-to-end encrypted, and seeing everyone who liked you, unlimited messaging, and voice and video calls are free. It also has a Games tab and ENM events with room-wide games. It launched in 2026 and is small, and on iPhone it is a web app rather than an App Store download. See Blend vs Feeld for a side-by-side comparison.

OkCupid

OkCupid is much larger than any ENM-only app, with 50M+ downloads on Android, and you can set your relationship type to non-monogamous. Its help centre says you then see only people who are non-monogamous or open to it. It does not allow couple or joint profiles, so each partner makes their own.

3Fun

3Fun is made for couples and singles who want to meet together. Couples can share an account or link, and its listing says messaging matches is free. VIP is $29.99 for a month or $39.99 for three months on the US App Store.

Plura (formerly Bloom Community)

Plura is an events-first app for queer, polyamorous and kink communities: you meet at events, then connect with mutual opt-in. It launches city by city, so check whether it is active where you live.

helloPOLY (formerly PolyFinda)

helloPOLY is a poly and kink-curious community app with a shibari focus and Melbourne-based events. You can filter by relationship style.

MoreThanOne

MoreThanOne is a small poly app. Its App Store listing says every feature is free, with no premium tier, and that you can link your profile with a partner or your whole polycule. We could not confirm its Google Play listing.

What about #open?

#open (listed in stores as “#Open: ENM IRL”) used to appear on most of these lists. When we checked on 26 October 2026, we could not find it in the Apple App Store or on Google Play: the store links on its website led to “not found” pages, although the website itself is still online. We have not seen a statement from the company, so check its website for the latest. See Blend vs #open.

Questions

Sources

1. Feeld homepage, accessed 26 October 2026.
2. Feeld on the US App Store, accessed 26 October 2026.
3. OkCupid help: Non-Monogamy on OkCupid, accessed 26 October 2026.
4. OkCupid on Google Play, accessed 26 October 2026.
5. 3Fun on the US App Store, accessed 26 October 2026.
6. 3Fun website, accessed 26 October 2026.
7. Plura on the US App Store, accessed 26 October 2026.
8. Plura FAQ, accessed 26 October 2026.
9. helloPOLY website, accessed 26 October 2026.
10. helloPOLY on the US App Store, accessed 26 October 2026.
11. MoreThanOne on the US App Store, accessed 26 October 2026.
12. #open website, accessed 26 October 2026.
13. About Blend, for every fact about Blend on this page.